Most people will have sex with someone at some point in their lives – whether that was a drunken fling, a hook-up with a ‘friend with benefits’ or sex with their long-term partner. But while that can be satisfying and pleasurable, it isn’t necessarily making love. Sex for the sake of sex can be mechanical and doesn’t usually draw two people closer together emotionally. Making love, on the other hand, is a physical way of communicating your feelings for each other, and can be an important step in any relationship.
Making love involves tenderness (even if it’s a bit on the rough side!) that is missing from regular sex. It also requires listening to a partner and considering their needs in addition to your own. It’s about showing your love and care for a person and making them feel valued and close to you.
In addition, making love often includes post-love making cuddles and embracing, or even just talking about the experience afterwards. This is a sign that your partner cares deeply for you and values the intimacy you share, and this is an essential ingredient to a loving and long-lasting relationship.
To start, it’s important to set the mood. Try putting on some sensual music and lighting a few candles to create a cozy, intimate environment. This will add to the sexual tension, increasing your desire. It can be tempting to dive into sex straight away, but the key is to build up the tension with foreplay and anticipation. This will make your climax that much more intense and fulfilling!
Another great way to prepare for sex is to give your partner a good rubdown. Use your hands to explore every part of her body, and don’t be afraid to touch her in sensitive places. This will get her in the mood and help you to connect with her on a deeper level during sex. It’s also a great way to relieve tension and stress.
Penetrate her slowly and gently – this will increase your pleasure and prevent you from getting too excited and prematurely ejaculating. Once you’ve penetrated her, gradually pull out so that she can fully enjoy the sensation of your hard cock and give herself time to savour the moment.
Making love is a beautiful and intimate act that can be enjoyed by anyone who is willing to put in the effort and communicate their emotions. Sex is just one part of a loving and healthy relationship, but it’s an important one, and by learning how to make love you can enhance your satisfaction with your partner, as well as foster emotional intimacy that will last a lifetime.
