In a romantic relationship, lovemaking is the act of expressing one’s emotions and feelings for another person through intimate physical affection. It’s the emotional component of human sexuality that is rooted in deeper, more meaningful connections. It’s about a couple embracing each other in both body and heart, becoming “one flesh.” It is the physical expression of true love and a sacred bond.
Although sex and making love are both forms of carnal pleasure, they differ in their approach and techniques used by the two partners. Sex is tangible lust that is gratifying on the level of the senses, but it can also be shallow and self-centered. While sex can be an amazing orgasm, it is not always the result of an emotional connection between partners and can sometimes be more about satisfying an individual’s lust than the needs and desires of the partner.
On the other hand, making love is about giving and receiving care, touching and cuddling, and even a touch of seduction. It’s a more holistic experience that encompasses more than just the physical, and is more about meeting the emotional and spiritual needs of your partner.
So what are the signs that you’re making love rather than just having sex? Here are some tips:
1. He pays attention to your sexual pleasures.
A man who is into you will want to know your favorite sexual quirks, and he’ll pay close attention to the little ways in which you’re satisfied during sex. He’ll be able to identify what it is about your body or touch that brings you pleasure. He’ll ask about it and will do his best to make those things happen.
2. He takes control and sets the mood.
A male who knows what makes his female partner happy during sex will take steps to create a sensual environment in the bedroom, which is important for lovemaking. For example, he will use foreplay to heighten the excitement and tension of the encounter by kissing and touching his partner’s face or hands. He’ll talk to her, be teasing and flirty and will tell her how much he wants her. He’ll also keep his eyes on her throughout the experience, maintaining eye contact and a deep gaze that shows how much he cares.
3. He pampers her before and during lovemaking.
During and after lovemaking, he’ll continue to show that he’s into her by playing with her body and teasing her until she reaches her climax. He’ll play with her hair and lips, and will stroke the soft, sensitive parts of her body as well as her thighs and shoulders. He’ll give her oral sensations as well and will play with her genital area.
During this process, she’ll continue to express her feelings through moans and groans. He’ll be teasing her and telling her to push harder and moan louder to reach her climax, but he won’t hurt her in any way. He’ll be gentle but firm with her and will make sure she is feeling comfortable.