Making love is a moment in the relationship where two people share a deep emotional and physical bond through intimate sexual activity. It often involves a lot of kissing, touching, massaging and even more serious sexual intercourse, but the best kind of love making also has a strong sense of romance to it. It’s an opportunity to turn up the heat, to add passion and spice to your romance and to explore your partner in ways that will excite both of you.
Unlike sex, which may be just about physical pleasure and convenience (i.e. a drunken hook-up or a ‘friend with benefits’), making love can be a very real and important part of a loving relationship. It can help to build a stronger emotional connection between you and your partner and it’s a way of showing that you care about them, both during the intimacy and afterwards.
How to make love – a man wants to please you
One of the most obvious signs that your man really loves making love with you is if he takes extra care in doing so, whether that means getting the lighting just right or adding an intimate fragrance to the room. He will pay attention to the details and take the time to find out what pleasures you like. He will also make sure that he is comfortable with his own movements and doesn’t rush anything.
He will often stop during sex and kiss you on the forehead, which is a very special touch and a sign of deep emotional connection. He will also maintain eye contact during sex, rather than looking away. He will tell you things about himself and about his feelings for you, which is a very powerful form of communication. He will also want to talk about things after sex, which is quite different from the stereotype that guys just want to go to sleep straight afterwards and don’t have any interest in pillow talk!
A great love making session will include a mixture of both oral and anal sex, which will help to stimulate the body’s serotonin levels, thereby increasing the level of arousal. This will lead to one orgasms, and potentially more, which will feel amazing for both of you. The best way to maximise this experience is to prepare beforehand by setting the scene with candles and music, or by adding some lube before you start. Having an open mind will also help, as many women prefer to try out different sexual positions to see what they enjoy most and what works best for them.
A good love making session will be memorable, which is why it’s important to remember that it’s more than just sex. The most successful couples treat it as a precious moment in their relationship and are careful to plan their activities and set the mood, so that they can truly relax and enjoy each other’s company. It’s also very important to communicate your feelings to each other and to respect each other’s boundaries.
