Making love to your partner is not just about having sex. Making love is yet another means of saying, although there’s normally an implied meaning that making love either involves a sexual form of love, either romantic intimate, or religious. Lovemaking is seen by many as a normal and even desirable act between two individuals. The intimacy and feelings expressed during this act are often the very same feelings expressed when two people come together and profess their love for each other. This is why, making love, has sometimes been called the union of the mind and the heart.
There are various ways in which you can express your feelings towards one another through making love. Some of these are quite subtle and are what initially attract people towards one another; while others are a bit more direct. It is the subtle ones that have the greatest impact on the partner and the new things you learn about one another will begin to rub off on one another and you will begin to build a deeper understanding of who each other is and what the future holds. If you find that you and your partner are just not ready for making love and you’re just not sure whether it is something you should try then you should ease off and take some time away from one another, at least till you get a better feel for one another without the distraction of your thoughts being consumed by the act of making love.
When it comes to feelings, we should be aware that, in general, a man is attracted to women who show their interest in them sexually as well as those who show genuine intimacy. Women, on the other hand, prefer a man who is physically attractive. Therefore, if you want to stay close with your man then you will need to satisfy his sexual desires first, which means satisfying his desire for intimacy. When it comes to making love, you can either satisfy his desire for the physical aspect of the act itself or satisfy his need for the emotional satisfaction that comes from making love to him.
If you are a good listener and you find that your partner is genuinely interested in what you have to say then this can help to strengthen your bond even further. You can also use your physical body as a way to communicate what is happening in your minds and emotions. For example, when you are making love, if your partner asks you to move closer to him or her, you can do just that. The movement itself will convey to your partner that you are interested and that he is secure in you. It is the security and trust in a relationship that will allow the love making process to progress to deeper levels.
Once you have found yourselves set up with deep, fulfilling and passionate feelings for one another, then you can put aside the ideas of making love and foreplay. This is where many couples fall short. They seem to focus so much on the act of making love that they lose sight of the other things that go into the experience of being intimate. You need to allow your feelings and emotions to guide you.
One thing that you may notice is that during the act, you may feel very aroused and your libido may become very strong. However, this is actually a good sign. In fact, this may actually be a good indication that you are becoming ready for sex. If this is the case, then you should be encouraged to engage in more physical foreplay as the anticipation of making love will build up within you. As your sexual arousal subsides, your sexual desire will naturally follow.