Many couples use making love as a way to build emotional intimacy in their relationships. In the beginning of a relationship, it can also serve as a milestone, indicating that the two people have moved to a higher level of sexual intimacy. In the end, it can help a couple feel more connected to each other and closer than ever. But making love isn’t always easy. It requires a lot of foreplay to set the mood. And sometimes, it can fizzle out later on. It is important for couples to know how to make the most of this time and avoid it turning into a fight or an uncomfortable moment in their marriages.
In order to build the mood, it is important to understand what makes a person feel intimate. One of the main ways is through touch, so pay attention to how your partner feels when you are touching them in certain areas. For example, some people like to stroke the chest or neck during lovemaking. Others like to kiss different areas of the body, which can create a feeling of deep pleasure.
Another way to build the mood is by telling them about your feelings and letting them know how special they are to you. You can tell your partner how you feel by telling them sweet nothings or whispering in their ear. Then, let them get in the mood by talking about romantic memories or fantasizing about future adventures together.
You can also encourage them to get in the mood by setting up a romantic space for making love. Whether this means putting on soft music, lighting some candles, or making sure the bedroom is clean, a little bit of effort can go a long way in establishing an atmosphere that will bring about a great experience.
It is also important to communicate what you like and don’t like. For instance, some people find it a turn off when their partner has bad breath or smelly armpits. If you want to be a good lover, try not to complain about your partner’s hygiene habits or give them a hard time for their personal preferences.
Finally, it is important to be a good listener during lovemaking. Listen to their breathing pattern and their moans to find out what makes them happy in bed. And don’t be afraid to ask them what they need, if you are not sure how to proceed.
It’s important to go slow at first, especially if you are new to penetration. This will allow her to ease into it and will help prevent pain. It is also important to pay attention to the amount of foreplay you do, and the different ways you can touch her. Ensure that you explore all of her erogenous zones to keep her interested, and don’t rush through it just to get to the point where you are about to ejaculate. This can be disappointing for her, and it will not set the right mood.