Getting intimate in the bedroom is a beautiful and sensual experience that can lead to deeper emotional connection with your partner. However, many couples struggle to make it work effectively for their long-term relationship. If you are looking for a way to spice up your lovemaking in the bedroom, exploring fantasies, role-playing, and offering sensual massages can help. The key is to create an intimate atmosphere and give your partner pleasure that they crave in order to keep the fire burning for them in the bedroom.
The difference between having sex and making love is that the latter implies a deep sense of affection that goes with sexual intercourse. In some cases, love making can be more difficult than sex because it requires intimate moments with someone who is not just your lover but also your friend-with-benefits.
A man who loves you will want to please you and will put your pleasure before his own in order to make you feel loved and desired. He will not only be a physical source of pleasure, but he will also be emotionally stimulating with his caresses and kisses. He will talk to you and listen to your responses, which can be a great way to build trust and establish an emotional connection.
In addition to this, he will not only take his time to enter you in bed but also focus on the foreplay to arouse you further before he finally makes his move. He will play with your hair and limbs to stimulate all the senses in a way that is uniquely enjoyable to you. He will moan to signal that he is deeply enjoying himself and he will try different positions to see what pleases you most.
Another sign of a man who loves you is that he will want to spend more time with you after the intimate moment in order to continue your love making. He will spend time talking to you, laughing with you, and playing with your limbs before going to sleep.
While love making can be done in any setting, it is best to have a place where you both are comfortable and where you can both get close to each other. The missionary position, coital alignment technique (CAT), and spooning are ideal places to make love.
You should spend plenty of time on foreplay before entering her and ensure that she is wet before doing so. You can use lubricant to enhance the feeling of intimacy and make it more pleasurable for both of you. During the lovemaking, you can play with her by teasing her with playful kisses and gently touching her as well as stroking or brushing her hair.
You can further heighten the intensity by engaging in dirty talk that will intensify the feelings of intimacy between you. However, this is only appropriate if you are in a committed relationship where both partners can feel the feelings of love that are being conveyed through love making.
