Many people use the term’making love’ to describe sexual activity, but it is important to know that it can be more than just that. It can be more than just a physical act, it is also an emotional and spiritual expression of love between two partners.
A man who knows how to make love will show you that he loves you with his actions, not just his words. He will consider your needs in addition to his own and will not push you to have sex you do not want or feel comfortable with. He will hold you close to him or kiss you in ways that show how much he cares about you and wants to share his feelings with you.
He will look at you with intense eyes, and he will not try to distract you or talk about something that is not related to the experience. He will be completely taken by the moment and will not look at his watch or glance out the window. He will listen to music that is on the sensual side such as Paula Cole’s, Feelin’ Love or Berlin’s classic, Take My Breath Away. He will moan and kiss you to stimulate your senses.
Making love requires a certain level of intimacy that is different from regular sex. It can include eye gazing, tenderness, and the use of a variety of sensual massage techniques. The intimacy can be sexual or non-sexual, but it must involve a deep connection between the couple. It may even include deep, philosophical conversations between the partners.
When a man is in love with you, it will not be hard for him to make love. However, if your relationship is under stress outside the bedroom, it will be difficult for him to express his feelings in the bedroom. It is best to save the intimate activities for times when you and your partner are feeling relaxed.
The difference between having sex and making love is that having sex satisfies only one’s sexual urges while making love satisfies a person’s physical, emotional and sexual needs.
Often, sex is considered a form of self-gratification or a way to satisfy one’s sexual desires. But when a woman feels loving toward her partner, it will be easier for her to enjoy sex as a way of making love and bonding with her lover.
For women, knowing how to make love with a man is a beautiful thing. They can learn to read their partners’ cues during sex and respond accordingly. For example, if your partner moves a pillow out of the way to give you more room or remembers what positions were pleasurable for them, it’s a sign that they love you and are enjoying sex. If, on the other hand, they seem distant or distracted, you should ask them what’s wrong and discuss it with them. They may not be aware of how they are coming across and will appreciate your feedback.
