When you think of love making, your mind may wander to passionate sexual intercourse between a couple of sexy lovers. While great sex is necessary for a healthy relationship, there’s more to love making than that. It involves an emotional and spiritual connection that transforms your partner into your soul mate. It’s an intimate act of giving and receiving pleasure — body to body, heart to heart, and soul to soul. It’s the foundation of a long-lasting and happy marriage.
A man who loves you will care about your feelings in bed. He will not push you to have sex if you aren’t ready for it or want to take your time. He will respect your boundaries and make you feel comfortable. He will know that he can make you gasp for joy by slowing down, speeding up, and touching different areas of your body to keep it interesting.
He will ask you what you like in bed and will listen to your answers. He will try to please you in whatever way you like — physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. He will also tell you romantic things, words of affirmation and let you know he loves you during sex. He will check in with you to see if you’re okay and make sure you’re enjoying yourself. He will cuddle with you afterward instead of going straight to sleep or leaving the room.
Unlike some men who treat their women as objects to be conquered, your man will show that you mean the world to him. He will show this by taking the time to get hygienic in bed and use deodorant or cologne before he starts making you moan in pleasure. He will even brush his teeth to make you feel his breath against yours. This is one of the best ways he can let you know that he is thinking about more than his own needs.
If he talks or discusses his love for you during sex, he is showing that he cares about your feelings and your connection. He’s not there for just physical gratification and wants to make you his queen. He knows that sex is not everything in a relationship and will not force you to have sex if you’re not in the mood.
He will be hygienic and will wash his hands after he finishes with you. He will then put on cologne or perfume to ensure that he smells nice and fresh after making you love. He will also try to keep his armpits and mouth clean in case you don’t want them touched during sex. He will also wipe his penis after he uses it and will not leave a mess on your dress or in your hair. He will also be mindful of his body language in bed and will not slouch or drool while he’s with you. He will hold you in a position that makes you feel comfortable and secure.
