Many couples struggle with the concept of making love. They can have amazing sex but it is not the same as incredible love making. In fact, it is the latter that transforms a relationship and gives it the foundation it needs to actually last – happily. It is easy to confuse having sex with making love, especially because they both can look the same and feel similar. But, in reality, the difference is quite profound.
Making love refers to sexual intercourse that takes place only with your partner, spouse or beloved. It also includes emotional attachment and infatuation (at least in the beginning). Having sex, on the other hand, can be with anyone, including casual partners or friends-with-benefits. It doesn’t necessarily involve any emotion beyond the physical pleasure or infatuation, and can also be done without any emotional connection to a person or a relationship.
Obviously, the best way to learn what it feels like for your partner is to make love with them! It’s a good idea to take it slow and make sure you both enjoy it. The most important part of making love is to communicate with your partner throughout the process, and don’t forget to kiss them a lot. It’s a great time to express your feelings and show your love for them.
The physical act of sex releases feel-good chemicals in your brain and body, which is why it feels so good. When you are in love with someone, those internal chemicals can bring your whole body closer together, and can help to deepen your bond with them. This is why making love is so much better than just having sex.
However, even if you are in love with someone, you may not always be able to make love with them. This is because there are a lot of different factors that can affect how you and your partner make love. If you are under stress outside of the bedroom, for example, it will be hard to have a fulfilling sexual experience.
You can also not make love if you are just in it for the physical pleasure. You need to be genuinely in love with the person you are making love with, which is a completely different feeling than lust. If you are just using your partner for physical satisfaction, it is unlikely that you will ever make love with them, no matter how long you’ve been together.
Fortunately, there are ways to break out of this unhelpful pattern. One way is to stop comparing your experiences with other people’s. This will allow you to focus on what is really going on between you and your partner, rather than getting caught up in what other people might think or say. Another way is to practice mindfulness in the bedroom. This means being present in the moment, letting go of any worries or concerns you have, and simply enjoying the experience. In doing this, you can make the most of your time in the bedroom and really connect with your partner on a deeper level.
