Making love is one of the oldest forms of communicating, and yet it remains one of the most misunderstood. Though there’s generally an assumption that making love actually involves a specific kind of sexual activity, that is far from true. Making love can be an act between two people, a one-night stand, a serious relationship, a casual hookup, and more. There are actually as many ways to make love as there are people who have sex.
When you think about it, one of the major differences between making love and sex is that in the former you are always communicating with your partner and in the latter you are usually only experiencing the pleasure of sex. Sex is a very physical connection, one that takes place without ever being emotionally attached to another person. After all, why do you need to be emotionally connected to someone you just had sex with? In some ways, this makes it seem more like a purely physical activity, which of course, is also very common. However, there is a difference.
People often make love making out of purely physical feelings, such as lust. Lust just comes upon a person easily, without any consideration as to whether the actions are meant to be an emotional connection or not. In most cases, no. You should always consider whether the actions you are engaging in are truly intended to be an emotional connection, or if they are just a physical encounter that ends after a certain point. It would be an insult to the female species if men tried to use love making as a means for an emotional connection.
In addition to the need to consider whether your actions are meant to be emotionally or strictly physical, you should also be aware of how you are actually acting when you engage in this activity. In the case of making love, most people will be naturally relaxed and casual. However, when you are trying to build an emotional bond, you will likely be much more tense and anxious than usual. This tension and anxiety can actually work against you. You may not even realize that you are intentionally acting in a way that will hinder the bond you are trying to create.
One way that you can avoid this is to ensure that you are at a different level mentally and emotionally from your partner. Many people find that it is helpful to read books about couples who are able to maintain an intimate relationship even though they are married. By reading these kinds of books, you will learn how to keep your mind and body relaxed while you are making love. This ensures that both parties have the ability to experience intimacy on a different level.
Finally, you should consider how you feel when you make eye contact with your man while you are making love. In the vast majority of cases, men do not feel like they are making love to their partners unless they are doing so with an object of physical attraction. If you are trying to get your man to experience the same feelings that you feel when you are intimate, you should pay attention to how you feel when you look into his eyes. Often, men will make love when they are apart or depressed, but they rarely ever feel like they are looking at a woman when they are engaged in a loving relationship. If you want to get your man to feel deep emotions, you need to pay attention to how he feels when you make eye contact with him.
