Making love is a way of channeling deep sexual energy that bonds two people together. It involves a certain amount of tenderness, even if the sex is on the rough side, and it’s about considering your partner’s needs as well as your own. It may also involve talking about your fantasies and sharing them with each other, as well as creating a sensual environment that makes you feel seductive and loved.
There are many ways to make love, but the most important thing is that you and your partner remain connected throughout the act. This can be achieved through eye contact, using each other’s names and focusing on providing pleasure rather than just receiving it.
It is also important to listen to your partner and know what they like, especially if you are not sure yourself. Taking some “solo” time to discover what parts of your body please you and what don’t is an effective way to get an idea of how to touch your partner during sex. You can also try asking them about their preferences in bed and experimenting with different positions to find out what works best for you.
If your man takes the time to shower and put on a bit of cologne or deodorant before entering the bedroom, it’s a good sign that he is interested in more than just sex with you. He is also likely to take care of you while you are making love and will respect your boundaries.
You can also show him that you value him by gently teasing him during sex. If his hand, mouth or other body part starts to move toward a place that is off limits (such as your tit) tell him to stop in a playful tone and then use your hands to explore the area instead.
Once you’ve got a feel for each other’s preferences, try adding some spice to the scene by playing with some kink. For instance, you might squat or sit astride him as he lies on his back. This position offers great clitoral stimulation and G-spot stimulation as well, and it gives you intimate eye contact. You can also use your hands to graze him along the length of his penis and between his toes, as well as lick his lips.
If you want to add a little extra excitement, give him oral and hand sex at the same time. For example, hold his tit and stroke it with your thumb and index finger while stroking the top of his head with the tips of your fingers. It’s also a good idea to try some slow, deep penetration.
When he feels your mouth and hands against his tit, it will make him more excited and will encourage him to push you down harder. You can also try tying him up, which will demonstrate that you are in control and allow him to focus more on the sexual experience. Just be sure not to tie him in a way that is uncomfortable or painful.